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Thou wilt shew me the path of life: in thy presence is fulness of joy; at thy right hand there are pleasures for evermore. Psalms 16:11

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MyersDaily
Sunday, June 22, 2025

Relationships all around me are making my heart hurt.

Boys are gaslighting girls into doing what's bad for the girls, just to give the boy more control and dominance and ability to get what he wants from girls.

As a photographer especially, I know so many sad stories--like a boy whose girlfriend paid for his birthday photos not long ago is now with another doting girlfriend, and probably neither girlfriend knows about all of the other girls the boy has impregnated and dated and dumped or even worse for years and years of diabolical behavior.

Single mom after single mom are created by the bad boys, while the good boys grow older and older, with good jobs and everything, yet still waiting for their first date.

That's because good boys know deep inside them that the way the world works is wrong.

It's completely wrong as well how the religious world has copied the Satanic world and has pretended like the desires of men are the same as God's desire to save us from our sins.

"Men should be pursuers," say many "Christian" pastors, "just like God pursues the church, the bride of Christ."

This analogy is completely wrong.

The only kind of relationships in the Bible where a man pursued women like that are spelled out with men like Solomon's wives and Samson's illicit trysts with Philistine girls, prostitutes, and Delilah herself who wanted to murder him for money, not love him for life.

God does not need the help of men. Men need the help of God.

The wife of God's will is not someone whom you can find by 'pursuing' the lusts of your eyes.

God was the parent of Eve as well as Adam, and He created him for a wife and her for a husband, and gave her a husband and gave him a wife. There's perfect equality here.

That's the example that should be followed.

Likewise, Boaz did not look for Ruth.

God put them together by His divine power and plan.

Ruth and Boaz were merely wise enough to see the truth.

God gave Ruth to him, and him to Ruth. Ruth asked him to marry her. Boaz did not ask her to marry him, but accepted her offer to be the wife of God's will.

Humans are not smart enough to find good partners.

Instead, we should have our eyes open and be ready for the miracle of when God places a special soulmate into our lives.

We should treat every possible person as a potential husband or wife.

Men, for example, should not have three categories of women, like so many men wrongly do--women who are 'ugly,' to ignore; women who are pretty but 'bad,' which men gladly use as an evil excuse to mentally rape them while pretending not to be guilty of adultery like Jesus says they really are; and women to dream of as a wife, often in a foolish and infatuated way.

Rather, we should treat every possible person with respect and honor as a potential husband or wife.

And then we should welcome with open arms the husband or wife of God's will, as soon as we find him or her.

  Sincerely,
  Joseph Myers

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